A Parenting Consultant (PC) is a neutral third party appointed to help parents resolve ongoing disputes related to custody and parenting time. A PC is appointed by a Stipulated Court Order—meaning both parties must agree to use a Parenting Consultant. PCs cannot be appointed unilaterally by the court without the parties’ consent.

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Once appointed, the Parenting Consultant has the authority to make binding decisions on parenting-related issues, within the scope defined in the court order. This scope may be broad or narrow, depending on what the parties agree to, and is clearly outlined in the Stipulated Order.

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How the Parenting Consultant Process Works:

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1. Initial Attempt at Resolution:

Before involving the PC, parents are expected to attempt to resolve their disagreement directly.

 

2. Written Submission:

If the issue remains unresolved, each party submits their concerns in writing to the PC.

 

3. Joint Meeting:

The PC typically holds a joint session to facilitate discussion and explore resolution options.

 

4. Decision-Making:

If agreement cannot be reached, the PC will consider the information from both parents—and any relevant outside information, as needed—to make a binding written decision. This decision carries the full force and effect of a court order.

 

5. Challenging a Decision:

PC decisions may be challenged in court, but only in the manner and timeframe specified in the Order

 

6. Appointing the Parenting Consultant.

The PC process is not confidential. Communications with the expeditor can be shared with the court and all parties.

 

 

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Fees and Duration:

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• Fees are typically shared equally between the parents, although the PC has discretion to reallocate fees if one party is acting unreasonably or driving up costs.

• A retainer is usually required and must be maintained throughout the duration of the appointment.

• Parenting Consultant appointments typically last two years, though this can vary based on the family’s needs and the terms of the agreement.